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award-winning author, speaker, Therapist,
& educator.
Books.
GENDER TRAUMA.
Healing Cultural, Social, and Historical Gendered Trauma
Published September 2020
HOW TO UNDERSTAND YOUR relationships.
A practical guide, co-authored w/ Meg-John Barker
Published January 2025
Trans & Disabled.
An Anthology of Identities & Experiences
Published January 2025
There are people in your life who act as lighthouses.
Alex Iantaffi has been one of those people for me, and for many, many others I suspect. Time after time I've been adrift in stormy seas, at risk of being cast upon the jagged rocks. Alex's wisdom has been a guiding light for me through those times, although it has often taken me a while to follow it.
— Meg-John Barker
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gender stories podcast.
Everybody has a relationship with gender. What's your story?
The Gender Stories podcast invites guests from across the world to discuss their gender identity and its effect on their life. Taking gender divergence to be an everyday aspect of lived experience, we share stories that unsettle binaries and complicate how we view our careers, families, parenting, relationships, spirituality, and more.